How good is this website?

Its 4 am, I m still winding down from work.I m tired, exhausted but still in the mood for the daily grinding session. I really dont want to be put up against glorious smashers in battle arena or frankly even really groomed veterans at this point. We have all heard this said before but "Im growing tired of the online system" I know; its drawn out, its like we re on a broken record; but, its true, I am really getting sick of how the system works. I feel like because I m a dad,and because I work a closing shift at dominos. It is harder for me to get really good at this game I have been grinding night in night out; via training session, via online or just smashing against the cpu. It just doesnt seem like it's paying off for me at all. I m really stoked to enter the tournament this upcoming weekend but how can I even be ready for an online tournament? when i barley have confidence in playing normally? Well, I heard of a way where you can play with people around your skill level on a daily basis. How you can connect with them via a certain online system. It uses a server that matches you up with a player that is using the same server. Apparently, it is so good that it is one of the hghlt recommend servers out there.So, Anthers or Amrhamd ladder what do you have to offer? Are you really all that cracked up to be? Can I really fight people around my skill level? Can I really find alot of matches? Is there alot less lag? Will I be able to match with people even at 4 am? Why is this better then the online inside the game? I heard there is a ranking system,how does that ranking system work. Will there be people willing to just go into training mode with me and have a full on session there? How do we connect to each other? There are so many questions I want answered. I am so excitied to see what this site is all about.